I got out of the tub and was asked if I wanted to take a shower before getting in bed. I was feeling really good and since there was not blood in the water, I decided to skip the shower for now and just get some rest instead.
Karen just catching up on some of her charting. It is always fascinating to look back over the charting and notes after a birth. I have asked for both Kylie and Coopers chart and I plan to ask for a copy of Wesley's too, the nurse in me likes to see the birth from the care providers side :)
My mom got a little snuggle time in while I was getting settled in bed. the midwifes took a couple minutes to assess me and how I was doing. They checked my uterus, bleeding, vaginal area looking for tears and gave me herbs and meds for the postpartum cramping. all of this was done in my time, I let them know when I was ready to be assessed, ready to have meds and ready for the newborn exam to start.
I think they are looking at how big his feet were.
I got snuggled in bed and started my second tandem nursing adventure while Kylie had her breakfast too. Often people tell me "I would have a home birth, but I just dont want to worry about the mess." I wish I had a photo of the bed before I got in, this is what we did to make sure I didn't make a big "mess" all over the place. First we washed our favorite sheets and put them on the bed, next we covered them with a waterproof mattress pad and put old sheets on top of that, just in case I ended up delivering on the bed. Then (in my part of the bed) there was a disposable paper-like "sheet", with 2 more pads (similar to the ones that puppies are trained to pee on) then 1 large postpartum pad under me. We had it covered, especially since I was not bleeding hardly at all :) By that afternoon, my bleeding had slowed even more, we removed all the extra pads and paper sheets, we even took off the old sheet and waterproof pad and jumped right into our favorite clean sheets :) Easy Breezy.
Facetime with family.
"Look at his feet!"
Post birth exhausted/oxytocin high.
In a home birth the midwifes do all the newborn cares and exam. They sat in my living room and visited until I said I was ready for the newborn exam to happen. Many parts of the exam were done while Wes was nursing and skin to skin with me.
checking reflexes
listening to heart and lungs
when he wasn't skin to skin with me, he was simply next to me in bed.
he was not happy during some parts of the exam, so my mom and Kylie held his hands and talked to him. It is considered a top priority to be very gentle and respectful to the newborn during the exam. He was talked to in a soft sweet voice, they told him everything they were going to do and went very slow and stopped when he was upset.
instead of using a plastic clamp for the umbilical cord, there is a little rubber band that is placed, it allows for the cord to be cut nice and short and is much more comfortable for mom and baby during skin to skin.
Kylie jumped in and cut the cord again.
As part of the newborn exam you have the option for vitamin K injection or oral treatment and eye ointment (just like in the hospital). We decided not to do either one, I knew I did not have the STD's that cause the eye infections that require the ointment and since we were not circumcising Wes, and his birth was not traumatic, we decided not to do the Vit K.
stepping reflex
and this is how we weigh a baby at a home birth.
just a baby in a basket :)
Cooper started bringing in his favorite Paw Patrol characters to give to Wes.
Kylie had been waiting and waiting for her turn to hold the baby.
Once everything was complete, the midwifes tucked us all in bed and we took a nice long family nap. The rest of the day was wonderful and restful. I was brought food in bed while I cuddled with Wes and enjoyed lots of skin to skin. I took a shower at some point later in the day. I felt SO good after his birth. My swelling went down right away and since I didnt tear, and pushing was so short, my body truly felt great!
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